Compared to the olden days, how much effort do contemporary women put in ?How much effort is the woman expected to put in to keep marriage happy?
Just as much as the man. And if he doesn't put any in.......don't marry him. Really pay attention to how a man treats you while dating. We need to look for the signs.How much effort is the woman expected to put in to keep marriage happy?
She should put in as much as the male, as it should always have been. 50\50 seems ideal, but is impractical.
You've got 2 people with 2 individual minds and desires. They aren't always going to agree and it's not always best for one to compromise ';this time'; so the other will have to compromise the ';next time';. Decisions that are best for the couple, relationship, or one of the individuals won't always work that way.
However, all decisions should be discussed and hopefully the end result is something both can agree on, even if both aren't ecstatic about it.
As for taking care of the home, supporting one another emotionally, etc it should be a shared experience. Very few relationships will last long if there is a strong imbalance, unless one party is much more a follower and the other much more a leader.
I think that in a marriage it should be 50/50 on everything for both hubby and wife. If you are a team player in your marriage, happiness will always be there.
Supposed to be 50/50 but as time and routines wear on the number gets bigger for the woman!! like 80% woman and 20% men if even that? The routine makes a man lazy! especially after 20 - 30 years!!
Ideally just as much as the man but in reality women are expected to put in as much effort as they did back then.
only love can make one happy marriage
EACH person in the marriage should be putting in 100% - not 50/50.
both sides needs to put in 100% into the relationship.
However much it takes..
well i say its 50/50 but if you both love each other what you put in you should get back if not get out
the same
yes
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