Is it certain that pre marriage relationship is absolutely forbidden in Islam?

If yes, for the people who can not find their love of life, isn't it cruelty to Self to stay celibate? Since we ignore and neglect one of our most important physical needs? I also have heard that Rasool allah (PBUH) has said that ';Riazat'; (celibacy) is forbiden in his religious.


So what should a person do if they are looking, but can not find the right person for marriage?Is it certain that pre marriage relationship is absolutely forbidden in Islam?
It is forbidden and the obvious reason is Islam put clear focus on the norms of society, if society is corrupt the whole nation goes down, pre-marriage relations are one of the things that destract the focus of a person from his true way , the righteous way i.e. Islam. That is why islam prefers the marriages of children in early age so they will not indulge in sins. One of the disadvantage of this premarriage relationship is AIDS which western world is facing now, if you are talking about only friendship before marriage that is difficult to maintain %26amp; it will eventually lead to ........ so there is no other shortcut except an Islamic Nikkah.Is it certain that pre marriage relationship is absolutely forbidden in Islam?
yeah,ok, according to Islam, when you like someone you tell everyone about it and then send your relatives to tell her parents that you want to marry her. but wait a second! how would you know what she is by personality? what if after marriage you find out that she is not the one you are looking for? come on man, these days you cant say how a person is by seeing her face. you have to go out in order to know whether she is suitable for you. i know dating is allowed in Islam as long as you are taking a relative with you to meet her. what if she stays fake? there is a lot to ponder about actually.
yes , its not alowed but an adult may show his/her wish to marry a desired person , they tell parents n can get it !


yes islam doesnt like celibacy , but gives space to the natural phenomina as of relationship of man n women, consult some one elder relative or mosque person , get and arranged marriage if you get a good n faithful wife you will get all trust,love,understanding.





LET ALLAH DECIDE WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU !


OR


MAKE A CHOICE N LEAVE UPON GOD .
Hey buddy let me correct you.





Allah has created everyone in pairs..


And our beloved prophet (PBUH) said celibacy is not allowed. (i.e there is no position for a NUN in islam).





If some one dies before marriage or consumatting the marriage he is indeed somewhat relieved. Because Death is a gift to muslims..Relief from this wordly life and going into the pleasant paradise or horrendous hell.





Look for religious person. If the person is religious and obviously we are prone to desires. So it is never like a person is never attracted or desires sex. Everyone does at different level. WHen something is bothering someone, he/she wont have sex at that time. Or it wud be called a dull pleasure !





In Jannah u can fulfill ur fantasies (in lawful manner).





If cannot find - then do salatul istakhara couple of times, obey Allah and His Messenger (saws) (i.e follow sunnah)


INsha;allah u will find her/he.
Iam going to get thumbs down for this ,but LOVE is not a requirement for marriage. Find someone who is a pious Muslim to marry, Allah will give you the rest. I knew my Husband for a very short time before we were married but every day is new and we fall more and more in love every day. Seek Allah's will for your life not , the desires you have.
Keep looking. It's not a good idea to stay celibate, but it's far worse to commit zina. Man and woman alone together are never truly alone, shaytan is the 3rd. If you don't want to remain celibate, find someone and get married!
hehehe you can find a person that will start a pre marriage relationship, but not a Godfearing wife that seeks only a blessing through marriage?





Make saum or you should adopt other wishes about your soon-to-become wife...
no, it's like people go over the limmits and forbid alot more than needed.


it's not haram to have freinds, it's not haram to hang out, so do that as ur little pre-marital marrige.
Dont worry, relax and be happy. If you worry too much about finding something, you dont notice it even if its next to you sipping coffee.
There is someone for everyone. I do believe Allah knows best and will not give us more than we can bare.