Friday, November 25, 2011

What kind of person has a problem with living with a partner before marriage?

I'm wondering why someone would be averse to this idea, and what manner of people in general are keen on avoiding it. Religious ones for example? ';Romantic'; ones?What kind of person has a problem with living with a partner before marriage?
Your question shows a lot of bias, but I will tell you a very practical reason why women benefit when they wait until marriage to live together.





Since typically men are more reluctant to get married and start a family, if a woman moves in with a man, then the man has no reason to marry her. He has a cook, a maid, and a sex partner already living with him, so why should he get a wife? But if a woman refuses to move in until they are married, then she has leverage, and the man will have more incentive to put a ring on her finger.





As a legal institution, marriage has a lot of benefits for women. A man cannot leave his wife with out paying child support or alimony, but a man can easily ditch his live-in girlfriend. That is why women should not move in with their boyfriends, especially if they want the boyfriend to become a husband.





That is neither a romantic, nor a religious reason! The ';manner of people who are keen'; on avoiding cohabitation are women who think with their brains, not their hearts.What kind of person has a problem with living with a partner before marriage?
It's simple:





Individuals who are opposed due to the belief that it is sinful to do so outside of marriage.





Otherwise, if you're going to get married, even from a political, romantic, or other standpoint, there's no legitimate reason not to. Even for those who claim those sorts of reasons, the underlying reason is almost always religious beliefs, or at least the social pressure brought about by the religious beliefs of others.
I really think that people who were brought up traditionally or more conservatively would have a problem with the idea. Usually its because of religious beliefs such as muslims... they would absolutely be against the idea of that because it all has to do with purity (virginity) and obviously in the situation of living with a partner before marriage... theres questions of how a man and a women would be able to resist the temptations.





However... living with a partner before marriage is probably a very good idea considering the divorce rate that has been increasing. Maybe the this would be a great time to learn about one another before making such a big decision of marriage etc.





yeahh... thats my 2 cents lol





answer mine please?


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